tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-208620882024-03-13T13:01:45.625+07:00Ratna Punya CeritaThe future belong to those who have the courage to live their dreamsRatna Wahyu http://www.blogger.com/profile/17419714303597568202noreply@blogger.comBlogger1293125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20862088.post-29308615956928098492023-05-30T08:56:00.002+07:002023-05-30T08:56:20.257+07:00Cerita Suami Opname<p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="background-color: white; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Segoe UI", Roboto, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;"></span></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiOv7Zg0XfdpqpxxUyWpi0H6h5RSrDqaX7NSh08uhGHe6I0vNHEG-T05r9o96m1sfuhKMVzj68dzOzo7V9m55mxpvonLPOOXtNoR2ztLelv4Z0713yiJFp_4F5UbkIgRZODXKjwpRvLY8Ih3deQUbOSljPTtsNkdvx9qzcstzRvcqWhrggvSu8/s1440/Afik%20opname.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1440" data-original-width="1440" height="400" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiOv7Zg0XfdpqpxxUyWpi0H6h5RSrDqaX7NSh08uhGHe6I0vNHEG-T05r9o96m1sfuhKMVzj68dzOzo7V9m55mxpvonLPOOXtNoR2ztLelv4Z0713yiJFp_4F5UbkIgRZODXKjwpRvLY8Ih3deQUbOSljPTtsNkdvx9qzcstzRvcqWhrggvSu8/w400-h400/Afik%20opname.jpg" width="400" /></a></div><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><span style="background-color: white; font-size: 14px;"><span style="font-family: verdana;">We've been dreaming of having intimate and pleasant times, but here's the story goes. We had to stay in the hospital for five days, and it's okay. Qodarullah wa maa syaa fa’ala.</span></span><p></p><span style="font-family: verdana;"><span style="background-color: white; font-size: 14px;"><div style="text-align: justify;">Beberapa hikmah yang bisa diambil antara lain:</div></span><span style="background-color: white; font-size: 14px;"><div style="text-align: justify;"><b>1. Apa yang terjadi adalah takdir Allah.</b></div></span><span style="background-color: white; font-size: 14px;"><div style="text-align: justify;">"Tiada suatu bencanapun yang menimpa di bumi dan (tidak pula) pada dirimu sendiri melainkan telah tertulis dalam kitab (Lauhul Mahfuzh) sebelum Kami menciptakannya. Sesungguhnya yang demikian itu adalah mudah bagi Allah. (Kami jelaskan yang demikian itu) supaya kamu jangan berduka cita terhadap apa yang luput dari kamu, dan supaya kamu jangan terlalu gembira terhadap apa yang diberikan-Nya kepadamu. Dan Allah tidak menyukai setiap orang yang sombong lagi membanggakan diri." (Q.S Al Hadid : 22-23)"</div></span></span><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 14px;"><span style="font-family: verdana;"><br /></span></span></div><span style="font-family: verdana;"><span style="background-color: white; font-size: 14px;"><div style="text-align: justify;"><b>2. Allah bersama orang-orang yang sabar.</b></div></span><span style="background-color: white; font-size: 14px;"><div style="text-align: justify;">"Sekarang Allah telah meringankan kamu karena Dia mengetahui bahwa ada kelemahan padamu. ... Allah beserta orang-orang yang sabar." (QS. Al-Anfal : 66)</div></span></span><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 14px;"><span style="font-family: verdana;"><br /></span></span></div><span style="font-family: verdana;"><span style="background-color: white; font-size: 14px;"><div style="text-align: justify;"><b>3. Dana darurat itu penting.</b> </div><div style="text-align: justify;">Meskipun biaya rumah sakit sudah ditanggung oleh asuransi kesehatan dari kantor tapi ada biaya lain yang muncul misalnya beli makan untuk penunggu, transportasi buat rumah-RS PP, dsb.</div></span><span style="background-color: white; font-size: 14px;"><div style="text-align: justify;">"Dia (Yusuf) berkata, “Agar kamu bercocok tanam tujuh tahun (berturut-turut) sebagaimana biasa; kemudian apa yang kamu tuai hendaklah kamu biarkan di tangkainya kecuali sedikit untuk kamu makan. Kemudian setelah itu akan datang tujuh (tahun) yang sangat sulit, yang menghabiskan apa yang kamu simpan untuk menghadapinya (tahun sulit), kecuali sedikit dari apa (bibit gandum) yang kamu simpan." (QS. Yusuf : 47 - 48)</div></span></span><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 14px;"><span style="font-family: verdana;"><br /></span></span></div><span style="background-color: white; font-size: 14px;"><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: verdana;">Semoga sakit ini menjadi penggugur dosamu atas izin Allah ya sayang <a class="x1i10hfl xjbqb8w x6umtig x1b1mbwd xaqea5y xav7gou x9f619 x1ypdohk xt0psk2 xe8uvvx xdj266r x11i5rnm xat24cr x1mh8g0r xexx8yu x4uap5 x18d9i69 xkhd6sd x16tdsg8 x1hl2dhg xggy1nq x1a2a7pz notranslate _a6hd" href="https://www.instagram.com/afikraharja/" role="link" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; border-color: initial; border-style: initial; border-width: 0px; box-sizing: border-box; cursor: pointer; display: inline; list-style: none; margin: 0px; outline: none; padding: 0px; text-decoration-line: none; touch-action: manipulation;" tabindex="0">@afikraharja</a>. Aamiin ya rabbal alamin. Can't wait to have another sweet escape with you in better places. ❤️❤️</span></div></span><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 14px;"><span style="font-family: verdana;"><br /></span></span></div><span style="background-color: white; font-size: 14px;"><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: verdana;">Terima kasih untuk perhatian, doa, dukungan dan bantuannya kepada kami. You know who you are. Jazakumullahu khairan.</span></div></span>Ratna Wahyu http://www.blogger.com/profile/17419714303597568202noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20862088.post-63252989530664944132022-09-19T10:35:00.002+07:002022-09-19T10:35:25.515+07:00Be Proud of Yourself<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjbbh6ZGv7zIObMnKxUfqL4swH8nd1zR54BWxmCFaVBmQ3JrkJvNoYf8GDVnH7cfnpkroWcLlrMx3nUjrh0CfkLiXcmD0KJ7-hZgqGexP9-kcA5eNhPeRi0HUqCczXTQqcocpuUHCwxA0V7PAfNyexqyR1SbawqIfLwhw5V61ahJM56VefgsHU/s1440/296871407_5361842523883618_5064337444318600414_n.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1440" data-original-width="1440" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjbbh6ZGv7zIObMnKxUfqL4swH8nd1zR54BWxmCFaVBmQ3JrkJvNoYf8GDVnH7cfnpkroWcLlrMx3nUjrh0CfkLiXcmD0KJ7-hZgqGexP9-kcA5eNhPeRi0HUqCczXTQqcocpuUHCwxA0V7PAfNyexqyR1SbawqIfLwhw5V61ahJM56VefgsHU/s320/296871407_5361842523883618_5064337444318600414_n.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><br /><p><br /></p><p>Be proud of how you've been handling this year</p><p>The silent battles you fought, the moments you had to humble yourself</p><p>Wiped your own tears<br /></p><p>And pat yourself on the back</p><p><br />Celebrate your strength</p><p>And always thank to Allah for always being there when nobody was<br /><br /><br />"But no! Allah is your Guardian, and He is the best Helper." (Q.S Ali Imran : 150)</p><br />Ratna Wahyu http://www.blogger.com/profile/17419714303597568202noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20862088.post-76332834497234212722021-04-22T08:19:00.002+07:002021-04-22T08:19:29.896+07:002019, A Hard Year<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgHhuxyWAQwknZL8bDU7KnM09XZtCisQqCWcu-e8VFHji2urgy1lhNlF1Tb395Qj33JUjId9qfftSvsCUJD0o9F63DBGNTioHCIHsagpCGtpKGwiJHr_5CsPTtPklDJIj1YJx5Svg/s2048/IMG_20210407_182125_505.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="2048" data-original-width="2048" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgHhuxyWAQwknZL8bDU7KnM09XZtCisQqCWcu-e8VFHji2urgy1lhNlF1Tb395Qj33JUjId9qfftSvsCUJD0o9F63DBGNTioHCIHsagpCGtpKGwiJHr_5CsPTtPklDJIj1YJx5Svg/s320/IMG_20210407_182125_505.jpg" /></a></div><p><br /></p><p>2019 was a hard year for me. I lost my dad. I was in the situation I’ve never imagined on the day he’s gone. None of the family was there. My husband was not around, I had no shoulder to cry on. Being tough was the only option I had at that time.</p><p><br /></p><p>I feel empty for months. Couldn’t cry but my heart and head were heavy. Until I was given an opportunity to visit Haramain in unexpectedly way in the end of the year.</p><p><br /></p><p>It was surely the most humbling and wonderful experience ever. Crying a lot never been that peaceful because no one judges. Whenever I was staring, standing and praying right by the Kaaba I feel like it’s just me and Allah. I was talking to Him only. I feel accepted and listened, for everything I am. I was overwhelmed with Allah’s love. My heart was filled with hope. My soul was healed. </p><p><br /></p><p>"And when My servants ask you, [O Muḥammad], concerning Me - indeed I am near. I respond to the invocation of the supplicant when he calls upon Me. So let them respond to Me [by obedience] and believe in Me that they may be [rightly] guided." (Q.S Al Baqarah : 186)</p><p>.</p><p>.</p><p>#turningpoint #writetoheal #haramain #makkah #mecca #ratnatravelstheworld</p>Ratna Wahyu http://www.blogger.com/profile/17419714303597568202noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20862088.post-79294295318795490042021-03-22T10:28:00.005+07:002021-03-22T10:28:46.160+07:00Cerita Umroh : Hustle Bustle in Makkah<p> </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiomuunBmke_In0H6rGLIVoa5PerGkGRqZdIh-xC8rplXJy_-BHVJGVncNQb8ncCin5RarjVxbrTdiWkKbAPld2cCcRuz7P6yD1K-d2-DOCNtT5ZjaTklAyhG2ygf7Tmv3HorAR2w/s1080/IMG_20210322_101626_516.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1080" data-original-width="1080" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiomuunBmke_In0H6rGLIVoa5PerGkGRqZdIh-xC8rplXJy_-BHVJGVncNQb8ncCin5RarjVxbrTdiWkKbAPld2cCcRuz7P6yD1K-d2-DOCNtT5ZjaTklAyhG2ygf7Tmv3HorAR2w/s320/IMG_20210322_101626_516.jpg" /></a></div><br /><p></p><p>Experiencing the everyday hustle and bustle in Makkah makes me realize that life goes on, no matter what. If you don’t keep moving you will fall down.</p><p><br /></p><p>I realize that everything ends up working out. Sometimes even better than I can imagine. Whenever I'm in a hard place or feel like I'm being challenge the most, all I need to do is believe in where I'm heading, whatever Allah brings. </p><p><br /></p><p>A turning point to face grieving time. A new spirit to live my life better after my dad passed away. </p><p><br /></p><p>"Whatever blessings you have are from Allah. Then whenever hardship touches you, to Him alone you cry for help". (Q.S An Nahl : 53)</p>Ratna Wahyu http://www.blogger.com/profile/17419714303597568202noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20862088.post-89044456457192801642021-01-16T21:59:00.003+07:002021-01-16T21:59:39.008+07:00Isolasi Mandiri, Belajar Menghadapi Kematian<p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjRmf8x6J31xJZHHyhiVuGIH8AqqNQ1eKwgtWW1HbM7W0pdrbmLRdvsOdb5p7qdF8JxToJkUp7r-hD7YkAKmWCfp3WVNAuYsyfajMOf6fUdO5iIVL142yj_7c_78XqlRe8-cKIjVg/s2048/IMG_20210116_172258_956.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="2048" data-original-width="2048" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjRmf8x6J31xJZHHyhiVuGIH8AqqNQ1eKwgtWW1HbM7W0pdrbmLRdvsOdb5p7qdF8JxToJkUp7r-hD7YkAKmWCfp3WVNAuYsyfajMOf6fUdO5iIVL142yj_7c_78XqlRe8-cKIjVg/s320/IMG_20210116_172258_956.jpg" /></a></div><br />Isolasi mandiri di lantai dua, tinggal di sebuah ruangan seluas 12 m², di mana rute harian hanyalah kamar, balkon dan kamar mandi. Aku bisa mendengar suara suami, anak-anak dan mbah dari atas. Mereka ada, utuh tapi tak bisa disentuh. Di situlah kadang air mataku luruh.<p></p><p><br /></p><p>Waktu rasanya berjalan sangat lambat. Apalagi di awal isoman sedang tidak sholat. Berdoa saat itu terasa ada yg kurang. Aku juga merasakan kadang aku semangat, kadang ambyar. Apalagi di suatu hari kabar duka datang bertubi-tubi. Lalu ingat bahwa suatu saat nanti, namakulah yg disebut dalam pengumuman kematian itu.</p><p><br /></p><p>Kalau aku pikir-pikir isolasi mandiri ini ibarat belajar mempersiapkan kematian. Betapa tidak, di kamar sendiri, meninggalkan orang-orang yang kita sayang, apa yang kita punya dan gemerlap dunia tak lagi berguna. Menyadarkanku bahwa sesungguhnya yang paling dekat dengan kita adalah kematian. Sementara yang jauh adalah angan-angan. Aku suka lupa kalau setiap hembusan nafas adalah satu langkah mendekati kematian. Aku jadi bertanya pada diriku: Apakah bekalku sudah cukup ketika Allah memanggilku pulang?</p><p><br /></p><p>“Tiada suatu bencanapun yang menimpa di bumi dan (tidak pula) pada dirimu sendiri melainkan telah tertulis dalam kitab (Lauhul Mahfuzh) sebelum Kami menciptakannya. Sesungguhnya yang demikian itu adalah mudah bagi Allah. (Kami jelaskan yang demikian itu) supaya kamu jangan berduka cita terhadap apa yang luput dari kamu, dan supaya kamu jangan terlalu gembira terhadap apa yang diberikan-Nya kepadamu. Dan Allah tidak menyukai setiap orang yang sombong lagi membanggakan diri." (Q.S Al Hadid : 22-23)</p>Ratna Wahyu http://www.blogger.com/profile/17419714303597568202noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20862088.post-81101602066684637352020-09-17T05:07:00.003+07:002020-09-17T05:07:19.636+07:00Be Patient, Keep Waiting <p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgjwPPYaJ4FfppnGfP9S71BEeKeS0hBWIOV0pMbabndNU2LINjY49z2zYlim-cspaUWlOCb4o7LchcgIKTkf8_SkpR5m6gDNMCw7h3tVN73pTlGag8lD06EBHSNzgpN547SIPK3vw/s960/IMG_20200916_170054_403.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="960" data-original-width="960" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgjwPPYaJ4FfppnGfP9S71BEeKeS0hBWIOV0pMbabndNU2LINjY49z2zYlim-cspaUWlOCb4o7LchcgIKTkf8_SkpR5m6gDNMCw7h3tVN73pTlGag8lD06EBHSNzgpN547SIPK3vw/s320/IMG_20200916_170054_403.jpg" /></a></div><br />As the situation evolves worldwide, I want you to be present in the moment, remain calm and stay safe wherever you are. The beautiful places to explore and the fun things to do will have to wait, for the time being.<p></p><p><br /></p><p>I am here, silent and still in the day and night patiently waiting for the tough times to be over, to continue my journey.</p><p><br /></p><p>"Do you not see that ships sail through the sea by the favor of Allah that He may show you of His signs? Indeed in that are signs for everyone patient and grateful." (Q.S Luqman : 31)</p><p><br /></p><p>#quranquotes #ship #sea #harbour #wheninpapua #ratnatravelstheworld</p>Ratna Wahyu http://www.blogger.com/profile/17419714303597568202noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20862088.post-15050131234140122722020-06-14T16:02:00.002+07:002020-06-14T16:02:45.496+07:00Tahu Tek Surabaya<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEib4YlRtH6dClEC-m-GOcChyphenhyphenQ9q_nI5NShy6lTEjC6344KZclEnsmydE_RpkJ9kqQkfBt_62fv-3Ebj3kcJc2Hxt4sYigOTjVlW0e90hWCPmx0XzfxeWsjQjlVXI70wTrfy48L9NQ/s1080/IMG_20200614_154119_516.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1080" data-original-width="1080" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEib4YlRtH6dClEC-m-GOcChyphenhyphenQ9q_nI5NShy6lTEjC6344KZclEnsmydE_RpkJ9kqQkfBt_62fv-3Ebj3kcJc2Hxt4sYigOTjVlW0e90hWCPmx0XzfxeWsjQjlVXI70wTrfy48L9NQ/s320/IMG_20200614_154119_516.jpg" /></a></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div>Sudah lama gak makan Tahu Tek, penjual langganan terakhir ke sana gak jualan, trus gak ngecek lagi sih. Akhirnya bikin sendiri aja, karena kalaupun buka, pasti antri dan gak bisa physical distancing. Jadi yuk bikin saja. Resepnya nyontek di web Kecap Bango, dengan sedikit penyesuaian.</div><div><br /></div><div><b>Tahu Tek Surabaya</b></div><div>Bahan:</div><div>2 buah Lontong, potong-potong agak tebal</div><div>3 buah Tahu, potong kotak </div><div>2 Kentang rebus, kupas dan iris kotak</div><div>3 butir telur ayam segar</div><div>1 sdt Garam</div><div>½ sdt lada putih bubuk</div><div>Minyak untuk menggoreng</div><div><br /></div><div>Pelengkap:</div><div>150 gr Tauge, rebus sebentar, angkat,sisihkan</div><div>1/2 buah Mentimun, kupas, iris tipis</div><div>Kerupuk</div><div><br /></div><div>Saus kacang:</div><div>100 gr Kacang tanah sangrai, buang kulitnya</div><div>2 siung Bawang putih, sangrai</div><div>3 biji Cabe rawit (sesuai selera )</div><div>1,5 sdm Petis udang</div><div>Garam secukupnya</div><div>2 sdm Kecap manis (sesuai selera )</div><div>150 ml Air matang</div><div><br /></div><div>Cara memasak:</div><div>1. kocok telur, lalu tambahkan garam dan lada, aduk rata. Lalu tambahkan potongan tahu kotak, aduk rata, kemudian bagi menjadi 3 bagian, sisihkan.</div><div>2. Panaskan minyak goreng, goreng adonan telur seperto membuat telur dadar hingga matang di kedua sisinya, lakukan untuk adonan berikutnya, sisihkan.</div><div>3. Untuk membuat saus, campurkan semua bahan-bahan bumbu, air matang bisa ditambah atau dikurangi sesuai keinginan untuk kekentalannya.</div><div>4. Siapkan piring saji, atur dan susun berurutan potongan lontong, kentang, telur dadar kemudian siram dengan bumbu.</div><div>Taburkan tauge, mentimun dan kerupuk di atasnya. Sajikan segera.</div><div><br /></div><div>Alhamdulillah puas sama hasilnya ❤</div><div><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhQgkGMRRlcffrtwLr15Z9GgXX7XjAqPJSA34RCUh7-4aO0TSBgiVov68mG4nldxp3JuOfg0_HNVAW6utZnAi6VXGto7PAp3J9XyEDBuUHa0mm0gSgByTWxgoeP5MBh5IPmrm-vRw/s1080/IMG_20200614_154119_513.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1080" data-original-width="1080" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhQgkGMRRlcffrtwLr15Z9GgXX7XjAqPJSA34RCUh7-4aO0TSBgiVov68mG4nldxp3JuOfg0_HNVAW6utZnAi6VXGto7PAp3J9XyEDBuUHa0mm0gSgByTWxgoeP5MBh5IPmrm-vRw/s320/IMG_20200614_154119_513.jpg" /></a></div><div><br /></div><div>Untuk lontong, aku mencoba bikin lontong versi simpel. Nasi dari rice cooker, dipadatkan dalam cetakan, biarkan dingin baru dipotong. Nggak ribet, nggak pakai lama. Tentu saja lebih sehat karena nggak direbus lama.</div><div><br /></div><div>Happy cooking, happy eating!</div>Ratna Wahyu http://www.blogger.com/profile/17419714303597568202noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20862088.post-36700028089121750412020-06-07T11:03:00.002+07:002020-06-07T11:03:56.731+07:00Nasi Goreng Kambing ala Kebon Sirih<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEja2P79LqbAynTXlErUVOcAH6NBPE2u8OLfINhEwIyyEs7M68khiw3sYi705fo_Lynv32JBcggu09xrD3rDepSex5w6nG1LZXoIRq5RlvCPl-tu1QXbkh9EtvnRgPAyswE_bKGKXw/s3120/IMG_20200607_093455_899.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="3120" data-original-width="3120" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEja2P79LqbAynTXlErUVOcAH6NBPE2u8OLfINhEwIyyEs7M68khiw3sYi705fo_Lynv32JBcggu09xrD3rDepSex5w6nG1LZXoIRq5RlvCPl-tu1QXbkh9EtvnRgPAyswE_bKGKXw/s320/IMG_20200607_093455_899.jpg" /></a></div><div><br /></div><div>Memenuhi masakan yang dipengeni suami sejak kapan hari. Baru eksekusi setelah nemu toko daging online yang jualan kambing. Sebelumnya pernah bikin tapi dengan daging sapi.</div><div><br /></div><div>Nasi Goreng Kambing ala Kebon Sirih (Resep dari web Kecap Bango), dimodifikasi berat daging dan minyaknya menyesuaikan bahan yang ada di rumah.</div><div><br /></div><div>Bahan-bahan:</div><div>200 gr daging kambing, diiris tipis atau dipotong kotak-kotak kecil (sesuai selera)</div><div>450 gr nasi dingin</div><div>50 ml minyak kelapa</div><div>100 ml air </div><div>2 cm Kayu manis</div><div>1 lembar daun salam</div><div>Garam secukupnya</div><div>Kecap secukupnya</div><div><br /></div><div>Bumbu halus:</div><div>7 siung bawang merah</div><div>4 siung bawang putih</div><div>4 biji cabe merah</div><div>2 biji cabe rawit merah</div><div>¼ sdt kunyit bubuk</div><div>¼ sdt jintan bubuk</div><div>2 biji cengkeh, dihaluskan</div><div>2 biji kapulaga, dihaluskan</div><div><br /></div><div>Pelengkap</div><div>Telur dadar, iris tipis</div><div>Acar mentimun wortel</div><div>Emping belinjo</div><div><br /></div><div>Cara Memasak</div><div>1. Panaskan minyak di dalam wajan, masukkan kayu manis, daun salam dan bumbu halus lalu tumis hingga harum. Tambahkan daging kambing ke dalamnya, kemudian aduk-aduk hingga bumbu merata.</div><div>2. Tambahkan air, biarkan mendidih hingga daging kambing matang dan kaldu agak mengental. </div><div>3. Masukkan nasi dan kecap serta garam ke dalamnya, aduk-aduk hingga tercampur merata dan nasi agak mengering. Koreksi rasa.</div><div>4. Siap disajikan dengan acar dan emping.</div><div><br /></div><div>Rasanya cocok dan mantap alhamdulillah, suami happy ❤</div><div><br /></div><div>#homemade #homecooking #nasigorengkambing #dapurrumahpelangi</div>Ratna Wahyu http://www.blogger.com/profile/17419714303597568202noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20862088.post-73716224530346931572020-06-02T10:18:00.003+07:002020-06-02T10:18:59.804+07:00Overripe Banana Pancake<div>Sejak pandemi menyerang, aku lebih berhati-hati terhadap (bahan) makanan, sebisa mungkin jangan sampai ada yang terbuang. Sayang! Adakah yang sama sepertiku?</div><div><br /></div><div>Alasannya banyak aspek kehidupan menjadi lebih menantang, pengeluaran harus ditata ulang. Lalu, aku juga tidak bisa setiap hari belanja. Jangan sampai di luar sana masih banyak yang kesulitan makan, eh aku buang makanan. Kalau belum bisa membantu, paling tidak bisa berhemat dan bijak mengkonsumsi terlebih dahulu.</div><div><br /></div><div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiKk0lJnzrAh48IpsV9jM64EGyM24wtyx446a172UmIGN58fVwqFv6dqww33yYFiPEGhuOCc1BfgCq3yTewOcPwfkieVB0ntHuiHY65x3odf3HrD7tlQUy_IEG3WV3whmvpmK9ihQ/" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="3120" data-original-width="3120" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiKk0lJnzrAh48IpsV9jM64EGyM24wtyx446a172UmIGN58fVwqFv6dqww33yYFiPEGhuOCc1BfgCq3yTewOcPwfkieVB0ntHuiHY65x3odf3HrD7tlQUy_IEG3WV3whmvpmK9ihQ/s320/IMG_20200602_092917_420.jpg" /></a></div></div><div><br /></div><div>Pagi ini aku lihat ada dua buah pisang tergeletak di meja, tak tersentuh sejak kemarin, terlalu matang memang kurang menggugah selera. Buka kulkas ada susu cokelat tinggal sedikit. Aha, mari dibikin pancake saja. </div><div><br /></div><div>Overripe Banana Pancake </div><div><br /></div><div>Bahan:</div><div>1 bungkus tepung premix pancake (aku pakai ladang lima)</div><div>1 butir telur</div><div>125 ml susu (aku pakai susu cokelat)</div><div>2 sdm butter, lelehkan</div><div>2 sisir pisang</div><div>Kismis untuk toping</div><div><br /></div><div>Cara:</div><div>1. Kocok telur di wadah, campurkan pisang hancurkan kasar. </div><div>2. Tuang tepung premix, tambahkan susu, masukkan lelehan butter lalu aduk rata. </div><div>3. Panggang di teflon dengan api kecil sampai keluar gelembung - gelembung, lalu balik. Lakukan sampai adonan habis. </div><div>4. Taburi toping di atasnya.</div><div><br /></div><div>Voila, overripe banana pancake ready for breakfast. Topingnya bisa disesuikan dengan selera atau apa yang ada, mau dinikmati polosan juga bisa. Suka-suka aja.</div><div><br /></div><div>Alhamdulillah pisangnya nggak mubadzir kebuang, nggak nambah sampah. Semoga konsisten untuk begini. Aamiin.</div><div><br /></div><div>#bananapancake #banana #overripebanana #pancake #breakfast #homemade #homecooking #zerowaste</div>Ratna Wahyu http://www.blogger.com/profile/17419714303597568202noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20862088.post-23741318739791493912020-05-25T14:19:00.000+07:002020-05-25T14:20:08.255+07:00Eid Mubarak 1441 H<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgQOPoHfYihdT9bABzWivvg42eJ1tKikJIv4HgdR76PL2fErm4092GKpkGiYtqA0Pcik4EYPZ74-JYaqNHuA4JeA6OwjWcn8PjNZNx45uF5CehHsjOfDXD-o77Xqf6iExFv-VKhLQ/" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1244" data-original-width="1080" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgQOPoHfYihdT9bABzWivvg42eJ1tKikJIv4HgdR76PL2fErm4092GKpkGiYtqA0Pcik4EYPZ74-JYaqNHuA4JeA6OwjWcn8PjNZNx45uF5CehHsjOfDXD-o77Xqf6iExFv-VKhLQ/s320/IMG_20200523_212911_270.jpg" /></a></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div>Ramadhan has come to an end. May Allah accept our good deeds during the past thirty days and grant us an opportunity to reach next Ramadhans.</div><div><br /></div><div>Eid Mubarak dear fellas. May the guidance and blessings of Allah be with you and your family. </div><div><br /></div><div>With love,</div><div>The Raharjas</div>Ratna Wahyu http://www.blogger.com/profile/17419714303597568202noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20862088.post-15781841011410333372020-05-09T10:33:00.001+07:002020-05-09T10:33:34.674+07:00We Are Not In The Same Boat<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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I heard that we are in the same boat.</div>
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But it’s not like that.</div>
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We are in the same storm, but not in the same boat.</div>
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Your ship can be shipwrecked and mine might not be.</div>
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Or vice versa.</div>
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For some, quarantine is optimal: a moment of reflection, of re-connection. Easy, in flip flops, with a whiskey or tea.</div>
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For others, this is a desperate crisis.</div>
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For others, it is facing loneliness.</div>
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For some, peace, rest time, vacation.</div>
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Yet for others, Torture: How am I going to pay my bills?</div>
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Some were concerned about a brand of chocolate for Easter (this year there were no rich chocolates).</div>
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Others were concerned about the bread for the weekend, or if the noodles would last for a few more days.</div>
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Some were in their “home office”.</div>
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Others are looking through trash to survive.</div>
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Some want to go back to work because they are running out of money.</div>
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Others want to kill those who break the quarantine.</div>
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Some need to break the quarantine to stand in line at the banks.</div>
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Others to escape.</div>
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Others criticize the government for the lines.</div>
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Some have experienced the near-death of the virus, some have already lost someone from it, some are not sure their loved ones are going to make it, and some don’t even believe this is a big deal.</div>
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Some of us who are well now may end up experiencing it, and some believe they are infallible and will be blown away if or when this hits someone they know</div>
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Some have faith in God and expect miracles during 2020.</div>
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Others say the worse is yet to come.</div>
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So, friends, we are not in the same boat.</div>
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We are going through a time when our perceptions and needs are completely different.</div>
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And each one will emerge, in his own way, from that storm.</div>
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Some with a tan from their pool. Others with scars on the soul (for invisible reasons).</div>
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It is very important to see beyond what is seen at first glance. Not just looking, more than looking, seeing.</div>
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See beyond the political party, beyond biases, beyond the nose on your face.</div>
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Do not underestimate the pain of others if you do not feel it.</div>
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Do not judge the good life of the other, do not condemn the bad life of the other.</div>
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Don’t be a judge.</div>
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Let us not judge the one who lacks, as well as the one who exceeds him.</div>
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We are on different ships looking to survive.”</div>
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Let everyone navigate their route with respect, empathy and responsibility.</div>
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Apa kabar teman - teman? Semoga senantiasa dalam lindungan Allah. Belakangan lagi ramai soal virus Corona ya. Sejak pertama kali ditemukan akhir tahun lalu, Corona telah merubah banyak aspek kehidupan kita. Bukan hanya sekolah dan kantor yang sepi karena aktivitasnya diganti di rumah, tapi tempat ibadah pun sepi karena kegiatan massal harus dihindari. Sedih ya.<i> And for the first time in my life </i>aku melihat Masjidil Haram dan Masjid Nabawi sepi, ditutup untuk umum demi menghindari penyebaran virus Corona yang semakin hari semakin banyak korbannya. What a heartbreaking.</div>
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Banyak yang menyayangkan penutupan tsb, tapi aku mencoba memahami kebijakan Kerajaan Arab Saudi tsb. Pasalnya ratusan ribu bahkan jutaan orang yang berkumpul di dua masjid terbesar itu, dari berbagai latar belakang yang berbeda. Tentu penularannya bisa lebih cepat, dari karpet yang digelar untuk sholat, dari kiswah, dari Hajar Aswad, dari manapun Allah menghendaki. Betapa kecilnya ya kita di dunia ini, kalau Allah sudah berkehendak tidak ada satupun yang sanggup melawan. Kebesaran Allah itu nyata, dalam sekedipan mata semua bisa berbeda.</div>
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Lalu satu waktu aku menemukan twit <a href="http://twitter.com/sajidumar">@sajidumar</a> "What is the positive of the Ka'bah being blocked off? I got the answer from one of my students. He said: it's a chance to prove the world that despite all, we still worship one Allah. We never worshipped the Ka'bah, it's jut the direction we face when we worship"<br />
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And yes, it's right. Selama ini umat Islam "dituding" menyembah Ka'bah, padahal Ka'bah hanyalah arah ke mana umat Islam menghadapkan wajah ketika sholat. Kalau Ka'bah ditutup ya tetap bisa beribadah, dari mana saja. Misalnya dari rumah seperti yang dianjurkan untuk kondisi sekarang ini.<br />
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Kondisi ini menyadarkan kita bahwa yang sebenarnya butuh ibadah itu manusia. Yang butuh pahala berlipat dengan sholat di masjid itu manusia, yang butuh perasaan teduh dan khusuk ketika di masjid itu manusia. Yang butuh keberkahan Ka'bah juga manusia. Allah tidak butuh itu semua. Mau manusia beribadah atau tidak, Allah tetap ada, tetap Sang Maha. Allah pula yang membuktikan bahwa Makkah dan Madinah akan dijaga dari marabahaya, sebagaimana kedua kota itu dijaga malaikat. Sementara itu, selagi seperti ini, kita bisa beribadah di mana saja. Karena sesungguhnya Allah itu dekat.</div>
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"Dan apabila hamba-hambaku bertanya kepadamu tentang Aku, maka (jawablah) bahwasanya Aku adalah dekat. Aku mengabulkan permohonan orang yang berdoa apabila ia memohon kepada-Ku, maka hendaklah mereka itu memenuhi (segala perintah-Ku) dan hendaklah mereka berima kepada-Ku, agara mereka selalu berada dalam kebenaran." (Q.S Al Baqarah : 186)</div>
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Ya Allah, ampunilah kami yang lalai dan banyak dosa ini. Semoga wabah ini segera Engkau angkat, supaya kami bisa beribadah dan beraktivitas normal kembali. Supaya Haji dan Umroh dibuka kembali, supaya bisa beribadah dan kajian di masjid lagi. Aamiin ya rabbal alamin</div>
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"Indeed, the first House [of worship] established for mankind was that at Makkah - blessed and a guidance for the worlds." (QS Ali Imran : 96)</blockquote>
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As the moonlight illuminates the city sky, the pilgrims engage in intense prayer asking forgiveness from their Lord, shedding tears of sadness and joy simultaneously, until their eyes are numb and their faces glow. They face the Ka'bah to quench their thirst and fulfil their desires. The Ka'bah is a sight beyond belief, leaving its witnesses stunned as they stare at it in total awe and disbelief. Looking at the majestic structure, people forget about the world and everything about it. For a brief moment, it's just them and the Ka'bah; it's just them and their Lord.</div>
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Seeing such a tremendous sight, the heart skips a beat and the mind registers the moment forever. It is something really unique. And the size of the Ka'bah is so big that any photo we see cannot capture this unique structure.</div>
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All through the night, the constant battle between emotion and devotion continues till the adhaan is called and the people, finally, after spending half of the night in God's worship, get to line up facing the Ka'bah, before their Lord, Allah, to offer the morning prayers. It is at this moment that the birds hovering above the sky, too, seem to be circulating round the building, performing Tawaaf. It is in that moment when everything seems fictatious. No one cares about the night then. It's just you, your thoughts, your prayers and the breathtaking sight; the awesome moment. There, the night feels like the day and the moon feels like the sun.</div>
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As the night turns into the day and the bright sun comes out, the words of Allah are the only thing being recited constantly. The eyes that were wet all night, dry up and the tongue moistens as the ayaats of the Holy Quran and the chants of the pilgrims echo in the city's streets.</div>
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With the air so fresh, the atmosphere so clean, the sun so bright and the scent so pure, the city of Makkah surely stands out as one of the best cities to visit and why not? It is the city of the pilgrims, the city of the Arabs, the city that is host to the greatest event of the year, the Hajj. It is a city that remains busy throughout the day, throughout the night, and surely, throughout the year. They say that New York is the city that never sleeps. Well, whoever coined this term hasn't really been to Makkah - the city that literally never sleeps!<br />
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Beautiful caption taken from <a href="https://nation.com.pk/19-Apr-2015/makkah-the-city-that-never-sleeps">here</a>.</div>
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Bekal Rhea hari ini ada dua macam yaitu: Sayur Bening dan Semur Hati Telor. Satu lauk dalam semur untuk satu sesi makan 😂😂 plus ada jeruk dan perkedel tahu. Untuk aku dan suami Sayur Beningnya ditemani Rempeyek Udang (yang sengaja gak aku foto soalnya gemes ama bentuknya yang kurang okey😂).<br />
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Summary kandungan gizinya sebagai berikut:<br />
Karbohidrat: Nasi, Kentang<br />
Protein Hewani: Hati sapi, telur ayam<br />
Protein Nabati: Tofu dan Tahu<br />
Vitamin: Daun Ubi Jalar, Wortel, Labu Siam, Tomat, Jeruk<br />
Lemak: Minyak kelapa<br />
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Rhea akhir-akhir ini lagi suka Labu Siam dan Perkedel Tahu, jadi meski utak - atik menu biar dia semangat makan dengan bahan favoritnya. Hal ini sesuai salah satu kaidah Pemberian Makanan Bayi dan Anak (PMBA) yaitu active responsive feeding. Di gambar terlihat sayuran dan hati aku potong lebih kecil buat dia supaya gampang makannya, gak kesedak. Sementara kalau tofu, telur dan perkedel tahu dia sudah bisa menggigit atau memotong dengan sendok sendiri.<br />
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MPASI menu keluarga itu memudahkan. Aku gak mau mengulang bikin menu beda seperti waktu Bintang dulu, lebih capek dan sedih kalau gak dimakan. Kalau menu keluarga gini kan satu nggak selera, masih ada yang lain yang lahap makannya. 😅☺<br />
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#rheamakan #MPASIRhea #MPASIrumahan #MPASIAIMI #MPASIkearifanlokal #dapurrumahpelangi #homecooking #masaksendiri #kearifanlokalRatna Wahyu http://www.blogger.com/profile/17419714303597568202noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20862088.post-18833498199714321382020-01-06T09:11:00.000+07:002020-01-06T09:22:06.170+07:00Cerita Umroh : Pergi Bersama Ibuk<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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سُبْحَانَ اللهِ وَالْحَمْدُ للهِ، وَلاَ إِلَهَ إِلاَّ الله، وَاللهُ أَكْبَرُ. لاَ حَوْلَ وَلاَ قُوَّةَ إِلاَّ بِاللَّهِ<br />
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I've been traveled with many people, many times assist the bosses and collegues. But this time is special, I traveled with my mom for a quite long duration. It's an honour for me to accompany my mom for her first overseas trip. The Haramain is a destination we've been waiting since forever.<br />
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I may call it a real journey, physicly and emotionally. I found it's challenging with its ups and downs during these past 13 days. But the blessed feeling of being on the Haramain could never be expressed, it's beyond words. All I know is Allah so close to me and loves me all the way. Allah shows His Greatness that He could make anything happen even before our eyes start blinking.<br />
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Alhamdulillah Allah grants me opportunity to prove what my dad requested when he came to my dream and told me to not let mom go alone. I just realize that actually this is the way Allah called me as we all know Allah called us in unexpectedly ways. .<br />
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After all, this is definitely an unforgetable moment. Seeing my mom happy with her big smile painted on her face is priceless. This is a journey we'll be waiting to repeat for sure. May Allah grants us the opportunity to do the pilgrimage with our lovely ones someday. Aamiin<br />
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Bepergian ke luar kota tanpa bayi dan membawa pulang ASIP sudah sering kulakukan. Namun beda cerita ketika harus bepergian selama tiga belas hari. Awalnya sempat tidak yakin bisa membawa pulang semua ASIP-ku, perjuangan memerah tanpa menyusui tidak mudah. Di satu sisi aku ingat bahwa ada hak yang harus ditunaikan, meski anaknya sudah makan dan persediaan ASIP yang ditinggalkan secara perhitungan cukup. Kalau aku tidak memerah bisa kacau nih perjalanan menyusuiku, Rhea masih 14 bulan, baru separoh perjalanan lebih sedikit. Waktu itu suami menghiburku "Dijalani aja sebisanya. Kalau nggak bisa membawa semuanya pulang, paling nggak ada yang bisa dibawa pulang", "Kurma bisa beli di Ampel, tapi ASIP nggak ada yang jual di sana", candanya. Kami sepakat, bahwa menyusui dan umroh sama-sama ibadah, maka tidak boleh saling mengganggu, sebisa mungkin berjalan beriringan.</div>
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Sebelum berangkat, aku membuat to do list baik untuk keperluanku maupun untuk catatan di rumah selama aku pergi. Beberapa persiapan khusus yang harus dilakukan supaya ASIP bisa dibawa pulang dengan selamat antara lain:</div>
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<li style="text-align: justify;">Infokan kepada pihak penyelenggara/travel agent bahwa Anda adalah seorang ibu menyusui yang bepergian tanpa bayi sehingga harus memerah ASI selama berada di sana. Sampaikan juga apa kebutuhan Anda, misalnya: kulkas di dalam kamar untuk menyimpan ASIP segar, kulkas di resto untuk menyimpan ASIP beku dan ice gel. Infokan sedini mungkin sehingga Anda bisa mendapatkan bantuan.</li>
<li style="text-align: justify;">Cari tahu ke pihak maskapai tentang kebijakan membawa ASIP karena perlakuan tiap maskapai bisa berbeda. Alhamdulillah kemarin naik Garuda Indonesia yang mana aku sudah sering terbang membawa ASIP bersamanya, lebih tenang rasanya.</li>
<li style="text-align: justify;">Siapkan dua cooler bag, satu cooler bag kecil untuk dibawa beraktivitas keluar ruangan dan satu cooler bag besar untuk membawa ASIP beku. Perhitungkan ukuran cooler bag besar dengan ASIP yang biasa Anda dapatkan dalam satu hari, kalikan dengan jumlah hari Anda bepergian.</li>
<li style="text-align: justify;">Bawa ice gel. Perbandingan ice gel dan ASIP yang kubawa adalah 1:5 untuk cooler bag besar.</li>
<li style="text-align: justify;">Bawa sabun pencuci botol, sikat dan wadah tertutup untuk mensterilkan pompa dan printilannya. Aku biasa mensterilkan pompa dengan merebus air di water kettle dan merendamnya di wadah.</li>
<li style="text-align: justify;">Bawa kantong plastik besar transparant model ziplock. Ketika menitipkan ke hotel, gabungkan beberapa ASIP dalam satu kantong, tuliskan nama, nomor kamar dan nomor kantong untuk memudahkan identifikasi pemilik dan jumlah kantong (siapa tahu ada ibu menyusui lain di hotel tempat Anda menginap). Mohon maaf kali ini tidak go green, terpaksa pakai plastik karena lebih ringan dan ringkas.</li>
<li style="text-align: justify;">Bawa apron menyusui dan hand sanitizer.</li>
<li style="text-align: justify;">Ketika menitipkan ke resto tekankan "keep it froozen, on the freezer, become ice". Aku mengulang-ulangnya apalagi tidak semua staf hotel lancar berbahasa Inggris. Untuk memastikan keamanannya, keesokan harinya ketika menitipkan ASIP selanjutnya aku minta izin untuk mengecek.</li>
<li style="text-align: justify;">Bawa handuk untuk dibasahi dan didinginkan di kulkas. Ini bermanfaat untuk membantu menjaga suhu di cooler bag.</li>
<li style="text-align: justify;">Cooler bag besar isi ASIP sebaiknya diwrap sebelum dibagasikan karena semakin rapat semakin terjaga suhunya. Tidak perlu khawatir untuk memasukkannya dalam bagasi tercatat, aman kok. Karena kalau jumlah yg kita bawa melebihi satu liter, nggak bisa dimasukkan ke kabin.</li>
<li style="text-align: justify;">ASIP yg didapat jelang kepulangan tidak perlu dibekukan. Pastikan dikemas dalam kemasan plastik transparan dengan volume max 100 ml dan jumlah keseluruhan tidak lebih dari 1 liter.</li>
<li style="text-align: justify;">Siapkan surat pengantar berbahasa Inggris dari dokter bahwa Anda ibu menyusui yg akan bepergian tanpa bayi. Buat dalam beberapa rangkap ya untuk jaga-jaga jika diminta oleh petugas Anda masih punya backupnya.</li>
<li style="text-align: justify;">Memerahlah secara konsisten, sesuaikan waktunya dengan kegiatan yang ada. Nggak bisa tiga jam sekali tidak apa, yang penting konsisten. Berapapun hasilnya yang penting tetap memerah. Semakin lama hasil perahku memang menurun karena memang tidak menyusui langsung.</li>
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Alhamdulillah ASIP aman sampai rumah setelah menempuh 13 jam perjalananan (plus transit) dan berada di cooler bag hampir 24 jam. Pas dibuka baik ASIP dan ice gel masih ada inti bekunya sehingga bisa disimpan kembali. Semoga bermanfaat untuk Anda yang berencana pergi lama tanpa bayi.</div>
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Dan benar kata suami, ketika mendapati aku pulang Rhea bersorak gembira, tepuk tangan "nenen pulang, nenen pulang". Yang dia cek pertama kali adalah cooler bag, bukan koperku. Hahahaha.</div>
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<li>@afik.raharja for taking care the kiddos while I was away.</li>
<li>Ust. Syaifuddin dan Ust. Faiz dari @Shafiratourtarvel yang selalu siap siaga membantu penyimpanan ASIPku, terutama untuk komunikasi dengan pihak hotel dan pihak petugas bandara.</li>
<li>@firo.yusuf yang sudah minjemi cooler bag. Helps a lot.</li>
<li>@lianita.prawindarti yang hampir tiap hari ngabsen nanyain gimana ASIPku.</li>
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“Antara rumahku dan mimbarku adalah taman (raudhah) dari taman-taman surga” (HR. At Tirmidzi)<br />
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Bukan bermaksud riya, hanya ingin membagi tips untuk masuk Raudhah yang aku dapatkan dari Mbak Fadhilah, muttowifah grup kami. For me, it works. Jazakillah khairan ya Mbak ❤<br />
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Sudah rahasia umum bahwa berdoa dan sholat di Raudhah adalah impian semua jamaah karena merupakan salah satu tempat mustajabah. Namun untuk bisa masuk ke sana ada beberapa hal yang perlu diperhatikan antara lain:<br />
1. Jam buka Raudhah untuk perempuan sehabis subuh, dzuhur, dan isya. Yg paling enak buatku adalah habis subuh karena gak melawan kantuk, jam biologis sudah waktunya bangun.<br />
2. Pintu masuk Raudhah untuk perempuan di Gate 25. Usahakan ambil shaf di barisan paling kiri, karena pintu ke Raudhah dibuka dari yg bagian kiri ke kanan. Dari pintu masuk belok kiri lalu lurus ke depan, ambil bagian depan yaitu bagian tanpa anak. Oiya bisa juga masuk dari Gate 30.<br />
3. Usahakan datang 1-1,5 jam sebelum waktu sholat supaya bisa dapat shaf depan, karena kalau shaf depan sudah penuh pintu akan ditutup untuk menghindari tumpukan jamaah.<br />
4. Bawa barang seminimal mungkin karena di Raudhah areanya tidak luas. Tas harus tetap dipakai saat sholat supaya tidak hilang karena padatnya arus pengunjung.<br />
5. Datanglah berkelompok supaya bisa saling jaga saat sholat.<br />
6. Usahakan sudah BAK dan BAB sebelumnya, sekali keluar beluk tentu bisa balik ke tempat semula, apalagi jika pintu sudah ditutup.<br />
7. Hindari sisi kiri dekat makam Rasulullah karena banyak jamaah yang ingin memegang temboknya. Lebih enak di samping tiang karena kalau terdorong akan nyangkut 😁<br />
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Semoga informasi ini bermanfaat untuk Anda yg hendak ke sana. Selamat menjadi pejuang Raudhah, semoga Anda bisa beribadah dengan lancar dan nyaman. Aamiin.<br />
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Aku selama di Raudhah cuma bisa nangis, dari pertama masuk sampai keluar, rasanya campur aduk. Semua uneg-uneg rasanya ingin dituangkan, namun adakalanya tiba-tiba blank. Namun aku percaya, Allah lebih tahu apa yang aku butuhkan, apa yang terbaik bagiku meski tak sempat terucap kata. All I can say is Alhamdulillah, masyaallah tabarakallah. ❤<br />
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Terima kasih banyak untuk Mbak Devy, Mbak Ita, Mbak Nana, Bu Linda, Mbak Henny, Bu Mimin dan Faria yang sudah bantuin dan jagain aku sama ibu. Jazakumullah khairan. ❤<br />
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Aku pernah membaca di satu artikel bahwa sesungguhnya Safar (bepergian) adalah ujian bagi manusia, karena pada saat safar dia akan terganggu kenyamanannya seperti makan, minum, tidur, beribadah.</div>
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Tiga hari berada di Bali baru menyadari kalau itu benar adanya. Muslim adalah minoritas di pulau ini, praktis tak semudah di Surabaya untuk urusan menemukan masjid. Pameran di lapangan adalah tantangan tersendiri, fasilitas umum terbatas seperti toilet dan mushola. </div>
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Pihak panitia menyediakan mushola, sepetak tenda berkarpet dilengkapi satu kipas angin. Di depannya ada tempat wudhu berupa sederet kran air yang bawahnya diberi alas kayu, dari tampilannya terlihat bahwa ini hanya temporer. Sederhana. </div>
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Sempat mbatin "kok gini ya?". Tapi, aku rasanya malu sendiri. Wong ketika di tempat sholatnya lebih layak, saat adzan berkumandang aku masih sering menunda sholat, kenapa baru mengeluh ketika menemukan ini? Ah, aku manusia yang kurang bersyukur. Ini jelas masih mending daripada tanpa tenda, apa jadinya sholat ketika matahari bersinar terik? Nggak bisa membayangkan. Menjadi minoritas sejatinya adalah tempat bersabar, belajar dan bersyukur. Semoga aku bisa mengambil hikmahnya.</div>
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Katakanlah, “Tuhanku menyuruhku berlaku adil. Hadapkanlah wajahmu (kepada Allah) pada setiap salat, dan sembahlah Dia dengan mengikhlaskan ibadah semata-mata hanya kepada-Nya. Kamu akan dikembalikan kepada-Nya sebagaimana kamu diciptakan semula." (QS. Al-A'raf: 29)</div>
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"Skin care is essential, make up is a choice". I do agree with that karena kulit yang sehat lebih penting dan long lasting. Bukan seperti make up yang akan dihapus setelah acara selesai. Aku sendiri bukan orang yang suka make up, yang kupakai hanya bedak dan lipstick. Ada mascara, eyeliner dan blush on tapi jarang dipakai. Pernah ikut <i>beauty class</i> tapi tetap aja malas dandan, haha.</div>
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Namun sekitar dua tahun terakhir, aku mulai serius merawat diri. Untuk tubuh ada jadwal luluran, untuk rambut ada jadwal pakai hair mask. Keduanya biasa aku lakukan seminggu sekali. Sedangkan untuk wajah aku mengikuti pakem yang disarankan supaya hasilnya lebih maksimal. Aku menekuni 10 Step Korean Skin Care, meski tidak semua produk yang aku gunakan berasal dari Korea Selatan. Sebagai informasi, jenis kulit wajahku normal dengan titik minyak di hidung. Di wajahku ada flek kehitaman, aku mengevaluasinya sebagai akibat tidak memakai sunblock sedari remaja. Jadi fokusku adalah mempertahankan kulit wajah supaya lembab, flek tidak nambah dan anti aging.</div>
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<b>1. Make up removing</b><br />
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Ada dua micellar water yang aku pakai yaitu keluaran Garnier dan L'Oreal. Sebenarnya lebih suka sama L'Oreal tapi produk terakhir yang aku beli nitip teman dari USA ini lebih oily, jadi nggak bikin keset, beda dengan formula produk yang sebelumnya aku beli di KL atau OZ. Karena itu, aku pakai Garnier karena lebih mudah didapat dan lebih murah, heheh.</div>
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Untuk sabun wajah aku pakai dua, alasannya <i>I just love both of them</i>, jadi dipakainya gantian. Sama-sama membuat wajah bersih dan tidak membuat kering. </div>
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<b>Hadalabo Shirojyun Whitening Face</b></div>
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Dapat mengangkat kotoran dan minyak di wajah sekaligus mencerahkan dan meratakan warna kulit. Mengandung Hyaluronic Acid untuk meningkatkan kelembaban secara intensif sehingga kulit terasa elastis. </div>
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Pembersih wajah sekaligus make up ini mengandung AHA dan BHA yang berfungsi mengangkat sel kulit mati dan mencegah kulit kusam. Aman digunakan setiap hari.</div>
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<b>3. Exfoliating : Some By Mi Miracle Toner AHA BHA PHA 30</b></div>
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<b><br /></b>Toner ini bermanfaat untuk meningkatkan elastisitas dan menutrisi kulit tanpa menyebabkan iritasi, dan dapat digunakan setiap hari. Yang paling aku rasakan adalah wajah jadi lebih lembut karena sel kulit mati terangkat dan produksi minyak berlebih yang menyumbat pori-pori jadi terkontrol. Manfaat lain adalah mengurangi flek, mencerahkan kulit dan anti aging. Harus pakai lebih lama supaya bisa dirasakan hasilnya, ini aku baru pakai semingguan.</div>
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Toner ini sebenarnya menyasar kulit remaja, tapi aku suka karena enak dan segar ketika dipakai apalagi setelah seharian hidungku jadi oily, minyaknya jadi terangkat. Efek lainnya biasa aja sih, berencana ganti toner kalau ini sudah habis. </div>
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<b>5. Essence: Cosrx Galactomyces 95 Whitening Power Essence</b></div>
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Sheet mask identik dengan Koran Skin Care, ada banyak merek dan varian di pasaran. Aku sendiri sudah mencoba berbagai merek dan varian, namun paling suka produknya The Saem dan Nature Republic. Sedangkan varian yang sering aku gunakan adalah Argan, Bamboo, Blueberry, Rose dan Shea Butter. Sheet mask berfungsi menghidrasi kulit supaya kulit lebih glowing.</div>
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<br />Selain sheet mask aku juga menggunakan Aztec Indian Healing Clay. Bentuknya serbuk digunakan seminggu sekali dengan dicampur air, bisa juga dengan toner atau cuka apel, tapi aku belum pernah coba. Yang aku suka dari masker ini adalah deep cleansing, setelah pakai wajah berasa enteng dan bersih. Ada sensasi cekit-cekit ketika pakai, tapi akan hilang setelah wajah dibersihkan. Manfaat lainnya adalah mengempeskan jerawat, membersihkan komedo, mengecilkan pori, menetralkan kondisi kulit. </div>
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Baik sheet mask maupun clay mask aku pakai seminggu sekali, biasanya aku deep cleansing dulu baru hydrating, lebih nampol buatku.</div>
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<b>8. Eye cream: Laneige Special Care Eye Sleeping Mask</b></div>
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Cream ini berfungsi melembabkan dan menutrisi wajah, memperbaiki tekstur kulit yang rusak, mengurangi flek dan noda hitam di wajah, membantu pembentukan kolagen sehingga kulit tetap elastis dan mengontrol minyak berlebih yang diproduksi wajah. Komposisinya Argan Seed Extract Glycolic Acid, Propylene Glycol. </div>
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<b>10. Sunblock: Biore UV Aqua Rich Watery Essence SPF 50</b></div>
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Aku suka sama sunblock ini karena ringan, tidak lengket dan gampang meresap. Mengandung Aqua Micro Capsule yang menyegarkan, melembabkan dan melindungi kulit dari sinar UV dengan SPFnya yang tinggi.</div>
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Dalam kenyataannya, mengoles serangkaian skin care ini butuh komitmen karena seringkali sudah ngantuk jadi ada yang terlewatkan. Semoga tetap istiqomah supaya kulit sehat.</div>
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22 July 2011 - 22 July 2019.<br />
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Happy Anniversary sayang @afikraharja. May we celebrate many more years together, withstanding the tests of time to emerge stronger, wiser and happier. May Allah's abundant of blessing and guidance always be with us. .<br />
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I love you to the infinity and beyond. I can't thank enough for having you here with me through the thick and thin, sunrise and sunset, tears and laughters. We both know a past year was not easy for us, feel like riding a roller coaster, yet we pretty sure that we can make it through, hand in hand, heart to heart. Many days and dreams to share with you ❤❤<br />
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#anniversary #marriage #family #theraharja #loveofmylifeRatna Wahyu http://www.blogger.com/profile/17419714303597568202noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20862088.post-55812860918675841062019-06-19T12:49:00.003+07:002019-06-19T12:49:57.480+07:00Menu MPASI: Tumis Kangkung<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Lama gak posting di sini karena berbagai hal, mari mulai posting lagi, diawali dengan menu MPASInya Rhea. Alhamdulillah Rhea pemakan segala, meski malas makan tapi tetap mau makan meski porsinya lebih sedikit dari seharusnya. Aku masih setia menggunakan MPASI panduan WHO karena mudah, terjangkau dan mengedepankan kearifan lokal.<br />
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Hari ini masak request suami @afikraharja : Tumis Kangkung, Tempe Goreng dan Rempeyek Udang, plus pepaya. Mohon dimaklumi bentuk rempeyeknya yang gak oke 😅<br />
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Rhea juga makan menu ini tentu saja. Untuk Rhea, aku ambil sedikit ketika kangkung dan tahu sudah matang kemudian dicincang. Untuk menu keluarga cabai merah dan rawit ditumis terpisah, tambahkan gula, garam, merica dan kecap. Cabai rawitnya diutuhin supaya Bintang bisa makan.<br />
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Hari ini ada insiden. Harusnya aku ambil sebagian udang untuk Rhea sebelum dibuat rempeyek, tapi lupa. Baru ingat ketika rempeyek sudah matang. 😌😅 Lauk Rhea kemudian diganti telur orak arik.<br />
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Untuk makan siang dan malam Rhea menunya kali ini beda dengan menu keluarga, mengingat kangkung kalau dicampur ke makanan lama jadi berair. Aku bikin mashed potato suka-suka, isi kentang tumbuk kasar, kacang polong, kembang kol, daging giling kukus bumbu bawang putih cincang sama butter, plus parutan keju. Sedangkan makan malam kami, insyaallah mau menghabiskan bluder karena lusa mau pergi lagi.<br />
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#MPASIRumahan #MPASIAIMI #MPASIPerjalanan #MPASIkearifanlokal #pedomangiziseimbang #homecooking #masaksendiri #dapurrumahpelangi #catatanmpasirhea #rheamakanRatna Wahyu http://www.blogger.com/profile/17419714303597568202noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20862088.post-76903852335883537602019-02-18T10:50:00.002+07:002019-02-18T10:50:24.069+07:00Bapak Berpulang<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Innalillahi wa innailaihi rajiun. Allahummagfir lahu warfamhu waafihi wa'fu 'anhu.<br />
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Telah berpulang ke rahmatullah suami, bapak, kakek kami tercinta Bapak Toto Wahyudi pada Ahad, 27 Jumadil Awwal 1440 H (Sabtu, 2 Februari 2018) jam 20.30 di Madiun.<br />
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Saya atas nama keluarga menyampaikan terima kasih banyak kepada semua pihak yang telah membantu kami sebelum, selama dan sesudah pemakaman. Doa, bantuan dan dukungan Bapak/Ibu sangat berarti bagi kami. Jazakallahu khairan.<br />
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Kami mohon Bapak/Ibu dapat memaafkan kesalahan almarhum semasa masih hidup. Kemudian, apabila almarhum mempunyai hutang, mohon dapat disampaikan kepada kami agar bisa kami selesaikan.<br />
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Kami yang berduka cita,<br />
Hartatik<br />
Ratna Wahyu, Afik, Bintang, Rhea<br />
Febrian, Ratna Budhi, ShakeenaRatna Wahyu http://www.blogger.com/profile/17419714303597568202noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20862088.post-48005419073548084492019-01-31T14:41:00.000+07:002019-01-31T16:00:38.050+07:00[Review] Crazy Rich Asians<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Crazy Rich Asians is the first film I watched this year. I'm glad to know that this film is a great one. The film taught me many life lessons. A woman should be brave, tough and independent to pursue her life. Rachel and Astrid are my fave characters.</div>
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This film is about Nick Young and Rachel Chu love's story. Nick brought Rachel to Singapore to his best friend's wedding along to meet his crazy rich family, that he never told Rachel before. It's quite challenging for Rachel to bring herself into Nick's family as they have different life style and culture. Rachel surprised to found that Eleanor, Nick's mom told her that she was not enough for Nick. She tried to mend. But then she was shocked when Eleanor told her the fact about her family after Eleanor hire private investigator. Nick was very angry, he's done making an excuse about his family. He's on his determination to marry Rachel. </div>
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<b>"I'm not leaving because I'm scared, or because I think I'm not enough. Because maybe for the first time in my life, I know I am."</b></blockquote>
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I love the way Rachel dealing with Eleanor, in a elegant way. She's brilliant in arguing about their relationship. Rachel told Eleanor that Nick proposed her the day before, but Rachel turned him down. Not because she didn't want to, but she doesn't want Nick lose his family. She noted that if Nick choose the family over her, Nick might spend the rest of his life resenting Eleanor. When Eleanor said "only a fool folds a winning hand", Rachel replied that she loves Nick so much and willing to sacrifice her happiness for his and to remember that when Nick finds someone else, another lucky girl, in the future who Eleanor approves of and is happily married that it was her, just a daughter of a low-class immigrant and a nobody, who made it all possible. Rachel left it all clear before leaving back to America, to let Eleanor know exactly what's happening.</div>
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And about Astrid, I love how she deal with her husband, Michael, who has an affair during their marriage. She didn't want to make a scene when she found someone text Michael "the bed feels empty without you" during the party. Another day, Astrid confronted about that to Michael, her husband, on their way to the wedding. Michael tried to it around on her for making him feel inferior with her constantly buying expensive items. Michael got out of the car to leave her attending the wedding alone. Astrid conquer it. She kept going to the wedding accompany her grandma without Michael. </div>
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Watching this film where Singapore is its main location reminds me about every corner of Singapore I visited, the memories linger on. Well, I love this city. Modern, very clean, well organized and comfort. Gardens by the bay scene makes me want to fly there, my favorit spot in Singapore. I love strolling around the garden in the evening and end my day watching Gardens Rhapsody, when the super trees come alive at night with a dazzling display of light bursting across the sky and exhilarating sound. For me, it's just perfect.<br />
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P.S I suggest you to read another review of this film in different point of view which is just out of the box <a href="https://hermanyosef.com/crazy-rich-asians-loss-aversion/">here</a>. </div>
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Aku paling cerewet soal boarding pass, selalu berpesan "Tolong disimpan baik-baik, jangan hilang. Kalau takut hilang, sebaiknya web check in". Tapi toh ternyata masih adaaa aja yang ngilangin boarding pass dan gak mau web check in dg sejuta alasan. Kalau ditanya jawabnya macam - macam, ada yg rendah hati mengakui, ada yg ngeles, ada yg macak polos baru tahu (padahal sebelum berangkat sudah dikasih tahu), ada yg malah balik nanya "emang pak rektor juga ngumpulin boarding pass?". Tentu donk, rektor juga ngumpulin boarding pass. FYI, beliau tertib lho soal boarding pass. Kalau lagi dinas bareng, begitu turun dari pesawat langsung diserahkan ke aku. .<br />
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Pun, para atasanku lainnya Pak @junaidikhotib dan Pak @therunningshoes_ . beliau tertib soal boarding pass. Aku selalu mengusahakan web check in untuk beliau, apalagi seringkali kemarin baru pulang dari mana, hari ini sudah harus pergi lagi untuk tugas lainnya. Supaya beliau bisa langsung boarding kalau ternyata bandara rame, jalanan macet dsb. Nyatanya beliau selalu menyempatkan diri ke counter buat ngeprint ulang supaya lebih absah, print out yg hanya bisa didapat di bandara dan city check in. Soal boarding pass, beliau zero mistake. *standing obvation*👍👏<br />
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Begitu kembali dr luar kota, boarding pass langsung diberikan, bahkan tak jarang diletakkan di mejaku dg keadaan sudah ditempel di kertas dan difotokopi. kelihatan sepele mungkin, but means a lot for me.<br />
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Ada banyak pelajaran yg bisa diambil dari secarik boarding pass, tentang menjaga amanah, sejumlah uang yg dikeluarkan untuk sebuah perjalanan dinas harus bisa dibuktikan kebenarannya secara utuh dan menyeluruh. Tentang menaati aturan, tentang kerjasama untuk tidak membuat orang lain (bendahara, PPK dan verifikator) bekerja dua kali. Tentang kualitas diri. .<br />
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Kehilangan boarding pass adalah kesalahan yg sebenarnya bisa dihindari, ayo belajar lebih tertib lagi. .<br />
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Surabaya, 20 Desember 2018<br />
Sebuah pengingat untuk diri sendiri.Ratna Wahyu http://www.blogger.com/profile/17419714303597568202noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20862088.post-68617983589075782462018-12-16T07:25:00.001+07:002019-01-28T14:27:53.910+07:00Memerah ASI Ketika Dinas Luar Kota Sehari<br />
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Dinas luar kota pertamaku setelah kembali dari cuti melahirkan. Bawaanku bertambah karena harus membawa peralatan memerah ASI: cooler bag, ice gel, pompa ASI dan apron. Aku membawa dua ice gel untuk durasi 15 jam ternyata cukup. Ini masih trial sebenarnya karena belum pernah membawa ASIP selama ini sebelumnya. Di kantor, setelah memerah, biasanya ASIP langsung aku masukkan kulkas, cooler bag dan ice gel hanya untuk membawa ASIP di perjalanan saja.</div>
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First thing to do after landing is pumping. Sengaja langsung jalan menuju ke terminal kereta bandara supaya bisa pumping setelah beli tiket sambil nunggu kereta. Eh ternyata nursery roomnya dikunci, dan tak ada petugas di sekitar situ, huhuhu. Jadilah aku pumping di lounge berbekal apron. Beberapa orang melihat ke arahku, tapi aku cuek saja. Toh tidak saling mengganggu. ✌✌<br />
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Aku baru pumping lagi ketika jam istirahat. Kali ini nebeng di Pojok Laktasinya Ditjen Kekayaan Intelektual. Well, sebenarnya ini bukan ruang laktasi beneran, karena diletakkan di ruang obat, di poliklinik. Tapi privasi lebih terjaga dan fasilitasnya lumayan. Ada kursi, bantal, karpet, wastafel, colokan dan kulkas. Pengunjung boleh memakainya dan menitipkan ASIP & ice gelnya di situ. Kemarin ketemu sama salah satu staf yg juga pumping, ngobrol-ngobrol jadi nggak kerasa. Oiya, Pojok Laktasi DJKI ada di lantai 1, dari pintu masuk belok ke kiri.<br />
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Alhamdulillah sekarang petugas bandara sudah jauh lebih aware soal ibu yang bepergian bawa ASIP, lolos begitu saja setelah pemeriksaan. Enam tahun lalu, ketika menyusui Bintang, aku harus menerima pemeriksaan ekstra, ditanya macam-macam terlebih dahulu.</div>
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